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On his birthday while he was away, he slept with an old flame who came to his dorm as his birthday present. The following weekend, he went back home and had dinner with me and his whole family, like nothing happened. Soon after, the girl was stalking me on social media, where she saw that we were together.
Apparently, she was clueless that I existed. When I checked her out online, I was devastated to see that they had so many photos together. Even her profile picture was of the two of them! So instead of dumping my ex, I gave in to his apologies and stayed. Just to piss the girl off. We ended up breaking up later on; I no longer trusted him anyway.
One afternoon, I was watching a movie with my friend on my MacBook when he started to message me on Yahoo! Without even a BUZZ! My friend saw it all unfold. The next day, he changed his Facebook relationship status to single, so I woke up to an avalanche of text messages from common friends asking about it.
I had to explain to everyone that we were over. She then moved to Australia, and I was meant to follow her after about a year. Around halfway through that year, I went on holiday to see her. I proposed to her in the middle of the airport, and she said yes. I then flew back to Japan to finish my contract. Two weeks after our engagement, I found out that she had another man. No wonder she was suddenly unavailable to chat online a lot of the time.
She insisted on giving me back the ring, so over a year after our engagement, we agreed to meet up. After trying to get back together with me for almost a year, he finally asked me kung wala na ba talagang pag-asa, to which I replied na wala na. He stopped all contact. Lo and behold, two months since that last talk, I found out he was married.
Turns out he had already been dating someone else while he was trying to win me back. On our fourth anniversary, I went to Manila, only to find out from the tita he used to live with that he had migrated to Australia, never to return. I confronted him that day.
We were both crying. We had been talking every night up until then, but it began to make sense why he insisted on talking through Viber instead of via our local numbers. One October, we had a serious fight, and she put all the blame on me. Being the martir that I am, I accepted it. November, she pointed out how terrible I was. I swallowed my pride and apologized just to appease her. I thought may pag-asa pa, after all that we had gone through. Sometime in late December, after she told me once and for all to leave her alone, I went over her social media account and noticed one guy tagged in a photo that I never bothered about before.
No wonder she was so eager to get rid of me. I would usually worry if I knew that he was going out or at a party, but being a good girlfriend, I tried my hardest to trust him. One day, I received a Facebook message from a stranger.
And now i was trying to get a job, but was having trouble. But we finally had a HUGE talk one night and she told me everything where I was wrong, and put me in my place to say, so then I decided we needed to compromise and so we gave each other many, many promises, and I finally stopped holding back and see each other and gave up my fears of it.
So now it is March, and sadly we got into a little fight which turned into something else. She ended telling me she wants to be with another guy, because he has his own place, job and started school again. Even before she planned on going to school here so we can live and be together but she decided to stay.
And at first i was a bit sad she started school, because we planned on.
ILoveAngel March 13, at 8: Jacob March 24, at 1: I am super happy to say me and my lovely GF are together now and about to move into an apartment together this summer and our relationship has never been better! But there has been an overwhelming amount of forgiveness and realism.
Despite all the bumps and extreme emotions that come with all of our mistakes, we kept a realistic out look on our relationship. She had to decide if she still loved me after I could make such an extremely dumb decision. And it look about 6 months for her to really start to trust me again.
Which is more than understandable if you ask me! I had to make a similar decision when we wanted to get back together after she left me for another guy. I would say communication is the most important thing in a relationship for many reasons. Every relationship is gonna take its own form of communication. It takes a reprogramming of your brain almost. They never mention the times where it takes his dumb ass 4 years to commit to even see you. Marriage may seem like this wonderful rainbow that a unicorn farts out for once you become a certain age, but let me tell you as someone fresh out of a LDR and about to be engaged.
Its scary as SHIT! I also take payments in food. Tell her you are willing to see her and really DO it. But if she really has moved on, I am so sorry, there is a girl out there close or far who is much worthy of your love and who will love you back as much you love her.
I am in a LDR for 4 yrs now and communication, trust, honesty and constant reminding the other of our love what keeps us both solid and together.
There should be reciprocity of love between the two of you or else one will be depleted, with all his or her love spent already. You empty love and get filled with love by the other. Both should be willing to fight for the other. Go and visit her if you must and talk to her in person or prove to her you meant it…your love for her. I hope this helps…Good luck. Halie April 15, at 5: My boyfriend 45 is from Florida. He is a truck driver.
We talk quite more than before. He develop feelings for me. Been cheated and hurt in the past. I will see you soon.
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I called him asking what for. He wanted to know what happen between us. He was talking to someone else at that point in October. He had feelings for someone else which that was me. It was his idea that I should fly out to Florida to see him to see where it was going to go.
I booked my flight for Dec. I was excited and scared meeting him for the first time. He was amazing everything what he said was true. I fell in love with him. We made it official that we were dating right on his 4th birthday. I was their to celebrate with him on his special day.
Hardest part came on Jan 3, was the day I was leaving. We wrote each other a letter on how we felt towards eachother. As we got to the airline getting my bordering pass saying our goodbye and sweet kisses was the hardest thing. I went my ways to get ready to go home. He called me after I got through security telling me he was trying to hold his tears back walking back to car. That really made me sad. As I was on my way home… it felt different. With up and downs. We always talk,videochat,text just try to make the most of it.
He got me a promise ring the symbol of his love to me that he wants to be with forever.
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I will be moving to Florida to be with him next yr in March to have our life and future together. We will be getting married and I will grant him a daughter he always wanted so do i. Just to let everyone know who is in a LDR that it does work. My boyfriend and I dated all through high school and was even engaged the night of my Senior prom. We had an amazing relationship, but I went off to college and he went into the Marines. Everyone was saying we were too young for it to work, there were people telling him I was cheating on him and vice versa.
None of that was true, but we ended up breaking up and moving on. We both married other people and had we each had three amazing children. After both our marriages failed we ended up finding each other by accident through facebook.
It has been two years since we found each other and we are more in love than we ever have been. The problem is…we live across the country from one another so we only get to see each other maybe once a month, if we are lucky.
Our kids are all teenagers and theirs lives and other parents are where they are. We cant figure our how to get together. My divorce decree states that my kids are to stay in this school district and so does his. Our youngest children have five more years of school left. Any advice out there? Eirini April 23, at 9: Well, here I am on my 4th year in college-need one more to graduate- having a LDR with a beautiful inside out French guy that originally started being both in the same place-that is Greece- for the first 2 months.
I cannot say much, apart from the fact that I had plenty experiences and I always felt liberated from attachments. Now in my 23 years and for the first time I truly feel in love and ready to be with that person for long time. And that is why…i feel that this is so unfair. One night I was just being cheerful and happy and another member of the group attacked me for it saying how I was a fake,considering he was the one asking me to join.
I was so upset I spend my night crying. But then suddenly I hear my phone,a text,it was A…. He texted to see if I was alright and that he could provide a shoulder for me to cry on. It never crossed my mind that I could fall for him. I mean he lives a continent away,I was 17 he was We would stay up late talking about a future together,a beach house,him,me,our two daughters and a dog.
He filled my days with happiness. Months went by we were more in love with each other. Then one night I felt he was pushing me out. By then I realized hey were dating.
I tried my best to keep them together I wanted him happy even tho I was miserable. Hershey May 9, at 8: I hope he do and I got that feeling yes he do love me: I hope we will be together for forever: I love you River May 13, at 4: We met through our parents and goes to different colleges.
Anyways he started to like me right after and after he confessed we started our relationship long distance. I want to give him a hug after a long day at school and want to hold his hand during a chilly morning. Should I break up with him? JustAGirl May 17, at Oh and also, my boyfriend lives in the US and I live in Canada.
So it all started October when I wrote in a group chat on Facebook about how depressed I was. That guy was the only one that asked me why. So I sent him a private message and we chatted the rest of the evening. Before that, I had seen him once during a skype group video and thought he was cute but I never dared to talk to him. So that evening, we talked and I even told him the first time I saw him i thought he was cute and everything. Anyways, 2 months passed and feelings started growing and growing.
One day, I got a letter from him. I also sent him a letter and that day we both got our letter so we decided to open them at the same time. His was a poem he made. I cried and kept telling him how much I loved him. So that was the beginning. It was going well until I cheated on him with a guy in the same group chat as before. I felt terrible and one day, when we were both telling the whole story of our life, I included the fact that I cheated on him… he was sad for some days and I was too.
I feel so frustrated not to be able to do anything but hope and wait. Hiba May 18, at 8: I was in a Long distance relationship for 3 and a half years.
I told him I give up on is too. So we broke up. He told me goodbye I said nothing. Even if he can make it now I will never think about it. He left when I needed him. While I was there for him. Our love was undoubtedly strong and very deep. I still love him I can tell it. I will fall in love with someone new, I know.
But I never would want you back.
Daly May 20, at 3: He used to live here as well but last year he got deported and now cant come back to the U. So i feel like im stuck he cant live here with me and i really dont want to live there with him.
I would have no one but him. My whole family and friends are in chicago. And i dont want to leave i was born here i like it here, ive tried staying with him for a month but i cried almost everyday i know nothing or noone but him.
Having no support or just someone to vent sucks, i can tell he feels bad about the situation but were both kind of stuck. I just want to know what to do should i suck it up and go be with him and leave everything. The last thing i want is to get cheated on and i honestly think it will happen eventually if we keep going with this long distance relationship.
Phe May 23, at 2: I go through these rough patches when I get stressed out and wish we could be together physically. Sam May 26, at 7: Ich bin aus Deutschland und er lebt in Indien. Wir beide haben uns auf Facebook durch ein paar Freunde kennengelernt. Damals ging mein Freund und ich durch eine emotionale Phase, die uns das ein oder andere Mal sowohl zusammen, als auch auseinander gerissen hat. LDR sind nicht einfach.
Aber meiner Meinung nach ist keine Beziehung einfach. Wenn du ihn liebst, ist die Antwort jedoch eindeutig. Ja, du bist es wert. Zweifelt nicht an eurem Partner und glaubt fest daran. LDR work if both partners love each other: Niki June 6, at 7: Every time I met her it felt special to me and we two had the best moment together.
She plays professional tennis and moves around the word. I constantly think about her and I know she does the same. The distance and knowing that it is the only barrier hurts. Alex June 6, at I met her 3 years ago in a college, we fall in love with each other, we love deep and we are clear of our love. We live far away from each other, I already knew that before I decided to take the steps to fall in love with her.
I remember the first time we have to separate, it was the semester break. We visited aquarium the day before, it was the moment of our life and we never forget every precious moment during that day.
And now, we had to separate for more than 4 months before we can meet each other for 5 days, we work at different country and I knew this day will come and I had a hard time to face the truth, I became depressed and angry and anxious, I dont want to separate for so long, I want to see her, take her to places, hug her, tell her stories, enjoy movies with her, wake up next to her.
I take a deep breathe and dive into the deep, dark, empty cave inside my mind, I wish I never sees her again, because it keep reminds me each time we meet is another goodbye to all of us and I hated it. She had her jobs now, she live comfortably with her family and friends, she is safe I know that, I tell myself to let go, to trust our relationship and let my worries sink into the deep ocean. I let go, I breathe again, I focus. We have countless arguements, fights, tears but we still stuck with each other.
I am very proud of her, her courage to wait for me, her courage to take the leap of faith into our LDR. In the first time ever, I can really told myself: My advice for LDR is: Make sure you really loves each other, and you could take the pain to be separate into different time zone and such.
LDR is not pretty but it helps us to keep our promises and every time we meet we had more to share and surprise for each other. We had our LDR worked, we wishes you to stay a healthy lifestyle and a healthy relationship: Trizha June 7, at We talk everyday and sometime we get a chance to see each other in cam.
However, it is in Florida and I am from Pennsylvania. My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 years now. I hate making this decision because I do not want to leave him and put a strain on my relationship.
I do not need a doctorate to practice what I want to practice because you can be certified with a year masters degree. But if I stay in PA, I would be taking a year off to work, take more classes, and reapply to more places next year for masters programs. While my family and many others are telling me to go to Florida and make the move, my boyfriend is the one person ignoring the topic and telling me that I do not need my doctorate right away which is true because there are 1 year online programs available after a masters … And I do not need to move across the country to become what I want to become, also true.
Plane tickets are pretty cheap to fly down to Florida from PA, also. It is so hard to pick up and leave everything you love. I just want my relationship to work and I know it can with a positive attitude and visits about once a month.
I just wish my boyfriend could view this opportunity as positive. He strongly does not want me to leave. Any advise or help on either my decision to move to Florida, what to say to my boyfriend that can make him more positive about this move, and what to do to make sure that it does work?! Amber June 14, at We met on a random game one day but became really close friends and then a couple.
I turned 18 back in March and graduated high school in May. However neither of our families have enough money for a plane ticket. However all of them failed; no one called me back for a job, no on requested a commission, my parents would give me SOME money but ask for it back in a few days, and we all know how the lottery goes.
Also, my girlfriend is a bipolar-depressant who had a history of being suicdal. I made a GoFundMe gofundme. I was hoping that someone would be nice enough to donate to help us finally meet each other.
I met my lovely boyfriend on October I was going to a university in Canada. I met him in a spanish course that he was taking, me on the other hand, I was just there to help the professor.
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I am not the kind of girl that will fall in love at first sight, him on the other hand did. So then we started talking and then I fell for him, and so profoundly. We started dating on November 20, It was so magical, we used to watch movies on his room, cook and had a lot of fun.
And my boyfriend has never liked asian girls, for personal reasons. And that was his third semester there. I swear, all of this made me feel like I was supposed to meet him no matter what, and that we are meant for each other. My fourth semester in the university, I worked hard, I swear I did, but my final exams brought my grades a bit down and my mom is not glad with it. The university here is not really good and very dangerous.
I love my honey so much, like crazy, but if i stay then our future will be uncertain. Can someone please help me? Jr June 25, at 9: But for now all we have is FaceTime and talking on the phone. I planned after high school to go to a college near her live down there until I finished college then after we both finish college then we will be together.
Love has no distance. I met him on a PC game on October